Monica D'silva
Borivali
I am Monica Dsilva from Mumbai.
I have been battling cancer (multiple myeloma) since 2016 and am currently under medication. I was first diagnosed after a routine medical check-up which led to further investigations and after several anxious weeks a diagnosis that said Multiple Myeloma. When I first heard the word cancer my whole world came crashing down and it was very hard for me to control myself. In that moment I started questioning everything. Why did it happen to me? Was it something I had done? Was it my food, my lifestyle or anything in my past that could explain this. The diagnosis sounded like a death sentence, and I thought my time here is up.
In my first consultation the doctor explained the different options and treatment had to start soon so before I could gather myself and recover from the initial shock, I had started with chemotherapy. At first it was weekly, then every 2 weeks and finally every month. The routine involved blood tests before every dose, bone protein tests, PET scans and waiting anxiously for every result. Every small change in test result numbers would be analysed. This routine continued and then finally in June 2024, December 2024 and in 2025 my results came back normal and I am currently on tablets to keep things under control.
This whole process was not easy, and it takes a while to accept the outcome and a longer time to get the strength to start fighting. The hardest part about chemotherapy is the feeling that you are not in control of your body anymore. You suddenly feel things you have never felt before and even daily tasks become harder. However, it’s the mind that gives up hope I knew I had to do something to stay strong mentally. I turned to prayer and immersed myself in it so I could have the strength to keep going. The support from my husband, family and friends made a huge difference. Seeing their smiling faces gave me the strength to keep going and to maintain a positive attitude. With time the prayers, medication and positive attitude gave me a sense of control, and I started regaining my strength. Physically as well I could start feeling like my former self and do some of the things I used to do before. Yes, there are limits and I cannot do everything that I used to but it still gives me a sense or normalcy.
This journey of nine years would not have been possible without Dr. Ashish Joshi and his team of dedicated doctors and medical professionals. All staff right from the gatekeeper, receptionist, nurses, pathology, pharmacy are all connected to each other and ensure that the patient is not a stranger. Everything you need is available when you need it and ready for pick-up when you arrive. They are always welcoming, caring and polite which goes a long way in making this difficult process a little bit easier. The doctors led by Dr Joshi are always available to answer any queries. No concern or query that you have is dismissed. They will listen to all your queries and take the time to explain things in a manner that is easy to understand. If I have to give some advice to cancer patients it would be to
- Keep faith in God
- Trust the Doctor and his team
- Take your medications on time and maintain a healthy diet
- Take time to rest
- Keep thinking positive
- Do not listen to negative advice or wonder cures advertised on the interne without consulting your doctor.
Surely things will work out. Keep faith there is always light at the end of the tunnel.
A Big Thank you Dr.Ashish Joshi and his team and all my fly of Moc
God bless u all


